Today, I´m going to copy, I like this letter a lot, I think it can make us to consider, I don´t know the author but it´s bright.
Letter to all the parents of the world:
1- Don't yell me, I respect you less when you do it, you teach me to yell myself and I don't want to do it.
2- Treat me with kindness and cordiality, as you do with your friends, that we´re relatives don't imply we can´t be friends.
3- If I do something wrong, don't ask me why, usually I don´t know
4- Don't lie when I'm around, and don't ask me to lie by you. You make me to lose the faith on what you say and make me to feel bad.
5- When you make a mistake, admit it. I will have a better opinion on you and will show me to admit my own mistakes.
6- Don't compare me with anybody, specially with my brethern. If you make me look better than another, somebody will suffer and ir you make me to look worst, I will suffer.
7- Let me do by myself. If you do the things by me I won´t learn
8- Don´t order me always. If you ask me and don't order, I will make it quickly and I would like it more.
9- Don´t change the opinion so often about what I should do.
10- Fulfills the promises, good and bad, if you promise me a reward give it to me and so if a punishment
11- Try to understand and help me. When I tell you a worry, don´t tell me it's not important... to me it is
12- Don't tell me to do what you don´t. I will learn and do always what you do, even if you don´t tell me. But I won´t do what you tell me to do and you don´t.
13- Don´t give me everything I ask you, sometimes I only ask to know until what point I can take you.
14- Love me and tell me. I like to hear you saying it, even if you think It´s nos necessary.

Fights with a child are sad and not necessary, adults are intelligent enought and can find a way to avoid it.