Independence, moral and relations with others:

To be able to relation properly with others we have to know how to relation with ourselves first, to love another is necessarily to love oneself as it happen with respect…
If you are able to relation properly with yourself you are an independence person… How to develop independence? Though moral and ethics, give us the way to consider our thoughts and behavior (not judge) our environment and the relation with others.
Using a few minutes of our time to think about morality take us to a deeper relation with ourselves, to do so, we can think about what we would like our relatives, friends…say to one person who writes our biography, we can also search for information about that subjects, what moral rules last along centuries and what change, moral in different cultures… this can give us a wide idea and make our life richer.
How independence improve our relation with others? Relation from respect makes others to know what to expect and trust. Trust is the base to human relations. Honesty and integrity are easy recognition by everybody

We can focus our life in a lot of things, some make it on the children, couple, friends, goods, fashion…. We use to focus in what we have been taught.. Relatives and another people around us are very important but if we focus our life on them and depend on them we make us and them bad. A wife who depends on her husband has not an own life and this suffocate the relation, kills the trust, raises the fear…
There are people focus on hate to another, this makes their lives completely miserable and they suffer a lot. Hate hurts the person who feel it more than anybody else.
Think about what kind of person we would like to be and what moral we would like to develop take us into a path of personal growing that allowed us to be more relax and happiest.
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